Mindfulness meditation for addiction recovery misc recovery tools & advice

There are certain times in life that we cannot help but feel completely present for. Climbing a sheer rock wall. Jumping into a body of frigid water. Learning to juggle. Exerting ourselves close to our maximum physical capacity. Fighting someone who wants to hurt us. Kissing someone whom we have...

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Freedom From Porn Hypnosis Meditation (nofap, noporn, nopmo etc.) coach church recovery tools & advice

Do not listen while operating machinery. Find a quiet area where you will not be disturbed to sit or lie down while listening to the meditation. I recommend using this five times per week for the first month, then as needed.

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Four NoFap Stories misc stories

Stories from r/nofap reproduced with the authors’ permission (unless their account was deleted)

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How Do I Tell Her About My PIED (Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction) coach church recovery tools & advice

So you’ve been keeping the reality of your porn-induced sexual dysfunction to yourself, and you want to get it off your chest to a special someone in the hope that she will be understanding and supportive of your recovery.

But you’re terrified.

You’re certain that she will feel...

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20 Lessons from my 20s coach church misc

At age 30, I am excited to get out of bed and start my day. I have discipline and structure in my life that better allows me to be productive, act in accord with my values, grow stronger every day, and live my best life. I am surrounded by beautiful and loving people. I make a living doing...

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Is a man’s life over when he goes bald? coach church misc

If you have never heard a comment about your thinning hair or seen yourself in a photo and realized just how much of your scalp is showing through your formerly lustrous locks, be grateful. 25% of men begin balding by age 30. I got an earlier start.

Today I’m going to respond to some of...

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Will his porn use destroy our marriage? recovery tools & advice stories

I’m psyched about today’s story. Last year I received a great email from a wife whose marriage was being destroyed by her husband’s compulsive and secretive porn use. She had suspected the truth for years, but he always denied denied denied and made her feel crazy–until...

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How bad can a pornography addiction get? coach church recovery tools & advice

I often share redemption and recovery stories to inspire rebooters. By seeing what others have accomplished in recovery, our own possibilities open up for us. This is not one of those stories.

This is a story about rock bottom. Rock bottom is a different place for every person, and it can only...

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How to develop accountability in your recovery recovery tools & advice

One of the factors that can make a huge difference in addiction recovery is the quality of support and accountability that you develop in your life. Many people who compulsively use drugs, alcohol, gambling, sex, or porn try for a long time to control or cease their behavior alone. They hide or...

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99 days to change my life (PIED recovery) coach church recovery tools & advice

Today I share a redemption and recovery story from someone who developed severe porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) before he ever had a relationship, then struggled with it in ignorance for years before discovering my work and what was really going on with him. He gave recovery a 90-day...

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Using porn since age 9, erectile dysfunction at age 15 coach church stories

Most people I help recover from porn-induced sexual dysfunction don’t even realize they have a problem until they’re in their 20s or 30s. The young man in today’s story discovered he had erectile dysfunction at 15 and recovered from it by 17. It wasn’t quick or easy, but...

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