Discovering the emotional roots of your porn addiction coach church recovery tools & advice

Today I read a letter from a subscriber who has struggled for a long time to stop using pornography, despite countless promises to himself that he was done with it, that this last time would truly be the last. I’m sure many of us can relate. What he eventually realized, however, is that...

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The Ointment (from The Easy Peasy Way to Quit Porn) recovery tools & advice

I don’t agree with the whole approach to recovery outlined in The Easy Peasy Way to Quit Porn (www.easypeasymethod.com), but I do like this story from the book.

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Lost and addicted since age 14, now at 26 finally pornfree and able to enjoy sex and intimacy coach church recovery tools & advice stories

The following recovery story that I was sent is too long to make a video reading it. However, I wanted to share this narrative, because it is detailed and demonstrates that recovery from porn-induced sexual dysfunction is very possible, even when you think you’re a severe case. Enjoy.

Today...

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A story of porn addiction and recovery coach church recovery tools & advice

This is my personal story of recovery from pornography addiction and porn-induced sexual dysfunction in late 2014.

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"I just want to be cured of PIED. This is the last straw" coach church recovery tools & advice

I respond to a subscriber letter as he describes the highs and lows of his battle against porn addiction to finally be free of porn-induced erectile dysfunction.

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The Pornfree Mindset for Lasting Recovery recovery tools & advice

I now acknowledge, no matter my past illusions, that pornography is harmful to me.

I recognize that though some people are able to view pornography occasionally without becoming addicted to it or developing acute symptoms such as sexual dysfunction, emotional distress, or relationship strife, I...

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Pornfree in the Pandemic ~ How to maintain recovery in quarantine coach church recovery tools & advice

Many of you right now in April 2020 are likely having a tougher time staying pornfree and optimistic given the global pandemic lockdown restrictions that most of us are living under. As one recent client put it:

How can I survive the urge during this quarantine time? No gym, No people outside. I...

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Addicted for most of my life. Is it too late for me? coach church recovery tools & advice

In this video coaching newsletter I read a letter from a 38-year-old man who has been lost in his porn addiction since his teen years, more than half his life. He wonders if recovery is even possible for him and if it’s worth the effort to try.

The full text of Anon’s post is below...

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I quit porn, but now my sex drive is out of control and hurting my relationship! coach church recovery tools & advice

In this video coaching newsletter I address a YouTube comment from a rebooter who has been off of porn for two months, but now his raging sex drive is threatening the health of his relationship. How can he navigate recovery and not overwhelm his lady?

The full text of Anon’s post is below...

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Should I do BDSM with my partner? coach church misc recovery tools & advice

 

In this video coaching newsletter I read a letter from a rebooter who is wondering whether he should be exploring the kinks he developed during his porn use in his real-life relationship. Are these desires innate to his sexuality, or is he just mimicking what pornography trained him to...

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