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Has porn hijacked YOUR brain, robbed YOU of intimate relationships, and destroyed YOUR confidence?

Millions of men have unknowingly allowed porn to take their ambition, mental clarity, sex-drive, and passion for life. 

HERE'S THE 4 REASONS YOU CAN'T STOP GOING BACK FOR MORE:

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If you are suffering from:

• The embarrassment of sexual performance issues that leave you ashamed and on the verge of giving up on real sex

• Wanting to quit porn but feeling powerless as you knowingly break promises to yourself

• A shattered self-esteem that leaves you unable to make eye contact with cute woman 

• Unfulfilling, dull sex—as what should be blissful moments of pleasure have turned into forgettable, colorless disappointments that you and your partner want to forget

• Falling down a rabbit-hole of extreme fetishes and kinks that stain your conscious with guilt 

• Looking at women you are attracted to, imagining an intimate and loving relationship with them just to be hit with the crushing feeling that you're unworthy of them 

• A brian fog that leaves you unable to focus with the clarity/ambition needed to progress in life, whether that's financially, emotionally or romantically. 

Then it's likely that porn has created extremely strong neural pathways in your brain causing the following 4 neurological disruptions...

Desensitization 

That little red mark is your all-powerful reward center.. 

And through the surges of dopamine that porn produces, it becomes overloaded... resulting in desensitization.

Desensitization makes it so that:

• Real sex doesn't live up to what you expected (if you can even get aroused for it anymore)

• The old videos just don't do it anymore, so you seek new, extreme kinks to stimulate the brain

• Regular activities like working out, hanging with friends, working/studying, cooking, or any other hobby you once had has lost its appeal

Sensitization 

This brain scan  (taken from a study done by The University of Cambridge), correctly demonstrates sensitization...

The subjects were shown pornographic material and had their brain activity monitored, and as you can see, the compulsive porn users' pathways are full of activity. 

This strong neural activity when presented with pornographic material is due to the extremely powerful neural pathways porn has wired your brain with.

As these unrelenting, drug-addict like urges shove your rational mind in the backseat, your willpower ultimately becomes useless... causing you to relapse (no matter what promises you made to yourself or even partner)

Hypofrontality 

The brain scan to the right (courtesy of Lawrence V. Tucker, M.D., PLLC, Diplomate, American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology and Appearing in the Conquer Series) depicts the frightening neurological disruption known as "Hypofrontality." 

Hypofrontality is when your brain is in the same weakened state that occurs in hard drug users. 

Porn has actively weakened your brain to a point where the "CEO" (your prefrontal cortex) drops off and you're left making bad decisions... 

Your rational mind has lost its grasp on the long-term goals and future you want, so you succumb to any immediate pleasure you can find...

You'll be overvaluing the reward of porn even though you know it's killing your sex life, destroying your self-esteem and taking away your focus and mental clarity.

Dysfunctional Stress Response (DSR) 

DSR is when you:

• Have a report for work or term paper due but instead of starting you watch porn first

• Get in an argument with your friend/partner and decide to blow off some steam with porn

• Start feeling lonely and frustrated so you decide to pleasure yourself to your favorite video

The stressors in your life now actively trigger you into watching porn... and these stressors could be something as small as getting a stain on your favorite shirt. 

This creates a vicious feedback cycle that makes you look for porn to 'destress' every time you encounter an obstacle...

A cycle where instead of listening to the pain/stress of the issue at hand, you instead comfort yourself with artificial hits of pleasure to convince your brain that everything is okay for those few seconds..

 Just to be hit by reality seconds after finishing—usually causing even more stress/anxiety.

Then it's likely that porn has created extremely strong neural pathways in your brain causing the following 4 neurological disruptions...

Desensitization 

That little red mark is your all-powerful reward center.. 

And through the surges of dopamine that porn produces, it becomes overloaded... resulting in desensitization.

Desensitization makes it so that:

• Real sex doesn't live up to what you expected (if you can even get aroused for it anymore)

• The old videos just don't do it anymore, so you seek new, extreme kinks to stimulate the brain

• Regular activities like working out, hanging with friends, working/studying, cooking, or any other hobby you once had has lost its appeal

Sensitization 

This brain scan  (taken from a study done by The University of Cambridge), correctly demonstrates sensitization...

The subjects were shown pornographic material and had their brain activity monitored, and as you can see, the compulsive porn users' pathways are full of activity. 

This strong neural activity when presented with pornographic material is due to the extremely powerful neural pathways porn has wired your brain with.

As these unrelenting, drug-addict like urges shove your rational mind in the backseat, your willpower ultimately becomes useless... causing you to relapse (no matter what promises you made to yourself or even partner)

Hypofrontality 

The brain scan shown (courtesy of Lawrence V. Tucker, M.D., PLLC, Diplomate, American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology and Appearing in the Conquer Series) depicts the frightening neurological disruption known as "Hypofrontality." 

Hypofrontality is when your brain is in the same weakened state that occurs in hard drug users. 

Porn has actively weakened your brain to a point where the "CEO" (your prefrontal cortex) drops off and you're left making bad decisions... 

Your rational mind has lost its grasp on the long-term goals and future you want, so you succumb to any immediate pleasure you can find...

You'll be overvaluing the reward of porn even though you know it's killing your sex life, destroying your self-esteem and taking away your focus and mental clarity.

Dysfunctional Stress Response (DSR) 

DSR is when you:

• Have a report for work or term paper due but instead of starting you watch porn first

• Get in an argument with your friend/partner and decide to blow off some steam with porn

• Start feeling lonely and frustrated so you decide to pleasure yourself to your favorite video

The stressors in your life now actively trigger you into watching porn... and these stressors could be something as small as getting a stain on your favorite shirt. 

This creates a vicious feedback cycle that makes you look for porn to 'destress' every time you encounter an obstacle...

A cycle where instead of listening to the pain/stress of the issue at hand, you instead comfort yourself with artificial hits of pleasure to convince your brain that everything is okay for those few seconds..

 Just to be hit by reality seconds after finishing—usually causing even more stress/anxiety.

The Good News...

Hundreds of men have been able to: 

• Escape the no-way-out abyss of porn use and broken promises 

• Reverse their terror-inducing sexual dysfunctions as they now take their partners to bed without any fear of ED

• Rewire their neurological desires from artificial hits of pleasure into natural rewards like getting a cute girl's number, running a sub-7 minute mile, and working towards that lucrative promotion

• Understand and navigate through their journey in a way that doesn't neurologically condition them to frantically seek porn-induced orgasms

• Unearth their long-lost focus and gain the clarity needed to make the rational decisions that'll benefit them long-term

• Avoid & acknowledge the bigger and lesser-known relapse-triggers that exist on their path of recovery

• Deal with the underlying trauma that may be causing this vicious cycle of porn use

• Treat porn as if it were dirt (how many times a day do you fight off the urge to eat dirt?)

All through The Complete Reboot Package...

A scientific & secular approach to quitting porn that includes the ONLY program (that I know of) proven to reverse the sexual dysfunctions porn plagues millions of men with...

The reason that The Complete Reboot Package works where others fail is because that most "quit porn" solutions focus on short-term behavior changes and leave you relying on willpower...

But by honing in on the fundamental psychological and neurological principles of addiction, The Complete Reboot Package is able to benefit men from all different situations & backgrounds—as they turn what would be a frustrating battle against their brain's neurology into an empowering journey of liberation that utilizes the best knowledge, tools and support available. 

And I do this by laying out a step-by-step blueprint for you to follow on your journey of neurologically defeating porn, reclaiming real sex, and building a fulfilling life that isn't reliant on a crutch of artificial pleasure. 

What my students have said...

Damon, 24

"I was outright questioning my sexuality... since the beginning of the 90 day, I feel as though I have a new lease for life and feel ready to become a man again. I had never felt insanely outright attracted to women I meet day to day... I felt this animalistic urge that simply was never there before. I can look women in the eye and speak confidently and passionately about more or less anything and even asked out a super fine girl on a date today and it went incredibly well." 

Theodore, 41

"On December 30th, I asked a close friend to put a restriction on my phone, that blocks access to sexual material. My vice for 15+ years was (near) daily viewing of porn to stroke off. I had not yet found your website or courses. Now you have been a tremendous support in the few weeks I've been with my reboot and rewiring path."

Felix, 32

"This experience taught me a LOT about myself, my strengths/weaknesses, and how to tackle any type of challenge, not just nofap. I guess I realized the problem wasn't just masturbating, it was my lifestyle and outlook. I now exercise daily, I dedicate time to learning, I write in online journals for self reflection, I've been eating healthier, losing weight..."

Craig, 20

"I was a 20 year old with the sex drive of a 70 year old... I thought "am I gay?" "Is it possible that the fact that I can't get it up with my gf a sign of homosexuality?" and for another F*CKING month I was obsessed and scared that I could be gay... I finally found your videos and classes... I don't have the same amount of anxiety approaching sex as I had before, in fact i enjoy it and being intimate with my partner is 10 times more fulfilling than a f*cking screen... threee days ago we had sex and, for the frist time I've ejaculated during intercourse, it was amazing... Now I can see the light at the end of the tunnel."

David, 45 

"I loved working through your training courses and watch them all in the space of a few weeks because it was so refreshing to hear that I'm not alone in my struggle, and to hear some of the science behind addiction and the practical advice for people wanting to make a change... It's been two months now and I am pleased to say no relapse so far!"

Christopher, 29

"I wanted to send you extreme gratitude... I'm now over 40 days clean from any porn... the emotional impact this has had on me is insane. Being addicted to internet porn since 12 has killed any true intimacy I've been able to have with a partner (PIED), but also kept me away from people in general. The world is opening up to me.."

Luis, 22 

"I came home I watched your videos, and I was filled with hope again. I started to be alive, to feel more, to be more emotional, I began to understand that pornography had not just affected my sexuality but also many other areas of my life, now I am more empathetic, more social, much more sentimental.... I was able to have successful sex with her (my girlfriend), wow I feel Wonderfull, I know that I have only been 45 days until today."

Oliver, 27

"I just wanted to say a big thank you. My situation has been getting better and better and now I can have sex with my gf at pretty much any time, multiple times a day, even with condoms. Without the influence of any alchool or drugs. And I seem to get harder than ever... You really have helped change my life with this issue I've been struggling with for 10 years."

What my students have said...

Damon, 24

"I was outright questioning my sexuality... since the beginning of the 90 day, I feel as though I have a new lease for life and feel ready to become a man again. I had never felt insanely outright attracted to women I meet day to day... I felt this animalistic urge that simply was never there before. I can look women in the eye and speak confidently and passionately about more or less anything and even asked out a super fine girl on a date today and it went incredibly well." 

Craig, 20

"I was a 20 year old with the sex drive of a 70 year old... I thought "am I gay?" "Is it possible that the fact that I can't get it up with my gf a sign of homosexuality?" and for another F*CKING month I was obsessed and scared that I could be gay... I finally found your videos and classes... I don't have the same amount of anxiety approaching sex as I had before, in fact i enjoy it and being intimate with my partner is 10 times more fulfilling than a f*cking screen... threee days ago we had sex and, for the frist time I've ejaculated during intercourse, it was amazing... Now I can see the light at the end of the tunnel."

Theodore, 41

"On December 30th, I asked a close friend to put a restriction on my phone, that blocks access to sexual material. My vice for 15+ years was (near) daily viewing of porn to stroke off. I had not yet found your website or courses. Now you have been a tremendous support in the few weeks I've been with my reboot and rewiring path."

Felix, 32

"This experience taught me a LOT about myself, my strengths/weaknesses, and how to tackle any type of challenge, not just nofap. I guess I realized the problem wasn't just masturbating, it was my lifestyle and outlook. I now exercise daily, I dedicate time to learning, I write in online journals for self reflection, I've been eating healthier, losing weight..."

David, 45 

"I loved working through your training courses and watch them all in the space of a few weeks because it was so refreshing to hear that I'm not alone in my struggle, and to hear some of the science behind addiction and the practical advice for people wanting to make a change... It's been two months now and I am pleased to say no relapse so far!"

Oliver, 27

"I just wanted to say a big thank you. My situation has been getting better and better and now I can have sex with my gf at pretty much any time, multiple times a day, even with condoms. Without the influence of any alchool or drugs. And I seem to get harder than ever... You really have helped change my life with this issue I've been struggling with for 10 years."

Christopher, 29

"I wanted to send you extreme gratitude... I'm now over 40 days clean from any porn... the emotional impact this has had on me is insane. Being addicted to internet porn since 12 has killed any true intimacy I've been able to have with a partner (PIED), but also kept me away from people in general. The world is opening up to me.."

Luis, 22 

"I came home I watched your videos, and I was filled with hope again. I started to be alive, to feel more, to be more emotional, I began to understand that pornography had not just affected my sexuality but also many other areas of my life, now I am more empathetic, more social, much more sentimental.... I was able to have successful sex with her (my girlfriend), wow I feel Wonderfull, I know that I have only been 45 days until today."

What's inside The Complete Reboot Package...

My Life Rebooted: Recover from Porn Addiction

A comprehensive video course on building a satisfying, proud life free from porn.

$447.00 USD

When inside you'll have access to my flagship course "My Life Rebooted" (Regularly Priced at $997)

"My Life Rebooted" gives you a completely laid out, step-by-step actionable guide to creating a stable porn-free life that actively weakens the neural pathways that hold your brain hostage.

Reboot, Rewire: Heal Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions

The What, Why, and How of recovery from PISD.

$447.00 USD

And you'll also get immediate access to my other program "Reboot, Rewire" (Regularly Priced at $997) as a free bonus.

"Reboot, Rewire" goes in-depth on how to identify and reverse any porn-induced sexual dysfunction that have robbed you of passionate sex, intimate relationships, and the confidence that successful men operate with.

With these two courses combined, you are able to leverage an achievable, straightforward plan that I lay out over 80+ highly in-depth videos which cover the following subjects (and more):

• The Brain on Porn (The brain-science and biology behind it all + how it simplifies your journey)

• Determining if your sexual dysfunction is porn-induced or if there are other factors in play (and what to do in that case)

• The unexpected yet very real benefits that you'll now experience OUTSIDE of the bedroom

• Whether or not porn-free masturbation is healthy for you, personally

• The extensive specifics on how to recover from porn-induced sexual dysfunctions—no matter the severity

• How to correctly recruit the support of your partner in this journey (There IS a way to do this without embarrassment)

• The biggest little known impediment to recovery (The hardest obstacles won't matter if you aren't getting this right) 

• Your new normal (dealing with experiencing years of emotional growth in just months)

• When to quit using porn (And why going cold turkey often does nothing but reinforce the behavior you're trying to quit)

• Finding out if you have any trauma stemming from porn use (and how this spills into your relationships with women)

• The pink cloud (an especially sneaky trap that you could encounter during recovery)

• Correctly building a fulfilling life (not just filling your schedule with 'keep busy' tasks)

• The distinction between shame and guilt (one can actually help you) 

• The absolute certainty principle (can turn a brutal struggle into an optimistic push into the future where willpower isn't relied on)

• The endowment effect and why you shouldn't 'give up porn'

• An outsider's perspective into an addict's behavior

• Walking the path (properly planning your walk away from porn)

• When to start dating and having sex again (And what the rush of new relationships can do) 

Plus I am throwing in free lifetime access to The Reboot Club ($150/yr):

A private discord community where you and other men on journeys of self-development and healing can share experiences, wisdom and support... and I'll be dropping in once a month for "Office Hours" ($150/mo) in which you can directly ask me for support on anything you are struggling with

Meaning that the Complete Reboot Package has a total market value of $3,924—which would be the price if I went according to the 'standard' set by others.

Yet I'm not... 

And it's not because I don't want money...

I've put hours of my life into composing this master program of resources & guidance and do believe that I should be paid in exchange for that... 

But the no bullsh*t reason why it isn't thousands of dollars is because...

There are no hidden gems. 

And that's true for every program/book/course being sold out there. 

All the information/research is out there—there are thousands of articles, medical journals, forum posts, TedTalks, etc. for us to learn from...

Just like I'm sure you are aware that medical textbooks and accounting certifications are also widely available on the internet—yet that doesn't mean you will stop going to the doctor or calling your accountant, right?

See, it could take months of research and years of failure for you to finally piece it all together and put together a permanent porn free lifestyle..

Yet what I offer is a shortcut...

No, I can't magically instill the discipline needed to quit porn into you...

No, you won't be cured by tomorrow...

And no, once inside you won't be enlightened by some ancient wisdom that has been withheld from the public...

None of that BS.

What I do claim is that my program will be the only resource you'll ever need.

There'll be no distractions, noise, outdated info, or complications—just a straightforward blueprint of achievable steps to take on your journey to a liberated life away from porn. 

You'll get to completely avoid the most common mistakes made when quitting porn by leveraging the clarity and insight that I had to unearth through years of research, struggles, and relapses...

I've already filtered through all the BS on the internet for you and now offer you a step-by-step plan of science-basked methods, strategies and ideas that are proven to work for a total price of $497.

For $497  I guarantee that once inside the program you'll have access to everything you'll ever need—meaning that you don't have to search through Google, Youtube, Reddit, etc. ever again. 

You won't be frantically reading medical journal after medical journal wondering why you still can't get it up with a real woman...

You won't be posting on the NoFap forum asking why your libido has crashed after quitting porn (called a flat-line)…

You won't be sifting through Reddit posts seeing if anyone else started off feeling joyous and then began drowning in depression and anxiety after a couple of weeks (Pink Cloud)

You won't have to stress about finding the answers to anything anymore—they're all inside + you'll have access to me...

Levi, 19

"Thanks to you, I was able to identify my problem and put it into words with my girlfriend, which led us to try and work together to find a way to heal myself. I'm 19 now. Still addicted, but each relapse is getting further appart, as I've understood that porn was a way for me to create the illusion of being powerful, to feel control over my life when the rest of it was falling appart, or becoming too stressful... You gave me hope that one day I would finally overcome my addiction, and that was my first step towards actually doing so."

William, 33

It's now 100 days for me since I've walked away completely from PMO. In that time I've developed my spirituality, worked on improving my finances and my physical strength. Life is so much brighter now, even though I am still dealing with the fallout from my addiction."

COMPLETE REBOOT PACKAGE

Includes both courses My Life Rebooted : a comprehensive video course on building a satisfying, proud life free from porn, and Reboot, Rewire: The What, Why, and How of recovery from porn-induced sexual dysfunctions.

$497.00 USD

So if (and only if) you are ready to commit to a no-nonsense blueprint that'll put you on a tunnel vision path to building a fulfilling porn-free life & curing the dysfunctions that rob you of the pleasures every man should experience

Sign Up Now

WARNING:

If you are NOT ready to make a commitment to yourself—leave this page.

I am 100% serious—if you are looking for a promise of fast, easy, and no work, there are other coaches out there that'll gladly take your money in promise of that. 

My program & community are NOT for people that aren't all the way committed...

But if you are ready to make this final promise to yourself, you can: 

• Biologically overcome the need for willpower and treat porn as if it were dirt

• Completely cure any porn-induced sexual dysfunction (ED, Premature Ejaculation, Sexual Anxiety, ETC.)

• Reverse the 4 neurological disruptions that have stripped you of your masculinity, confidence, erections, brain function & intimate relationships

• Join an active community of men on the similar journey of recovery and healing as you

A life where you aren't scared to take a partner to bed... 

A life where you aren't carrying the mental shame of extreme fetishes...

A life where you are having the passionate sex that goes into the early hours of the morning...

A life where you are neurologically seeking fulfilling, real rewards...

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Questions you might be asking...

And if you've read all the way to the bottom of this page without yet making the decision to join—I'll end with this post that I wrote and shared online after personally achieving freedom.

 

I looked at porn to be entertained, but I grew increasingly bored.

 

I looked at porn because I wanted a woman, but then I lost the drive to meet her. 

 

I looked at porn to learn how to have sex, but then I couldn't.

 

I looked at porn because I was lonely, but I only became more isolated. 

 

I looked at porn to satisfy my desire, but the longings only grew stronger. 

 

I looked at porn because I was in pain, but then my life was drained of pleasure. 

 

I looked at porn to feel, but I was increasingly numb. 

 

I looked at porn.

 

I don't look at porn anymore.

 

Don't look at porn anymore